If you have stumbled upon this blog post and are completely pleased with how much you weigh, despite having more handles on your body than a novice rock climbing wall, you might want to Get Along Little Doggies. This post is not for you. In fact, you may well get annoyed with me.
If you are easily offended by the term fat or are “triggered” by being told that YOU might be the cause of your fatness, your unfitness and your unhappiness, then you also might want to retreat to a safe space. I’m warning you, I will offend you and I’ll be smiling while I do it, which will likely enrage you and cause you to create a petition to ban my thoughts. If, however, you speak fluent Straighttalk and Cutthebullshit, then welcome. Take a seat and hang for a bit. I got some great stuff for you!

If you could make ONE practical change to your diet, that would immediately cause you to lose weight, would you do it?

The more cynical among you might be asking: “What do you mean by practical change, Gail”? Alright then, fair enough. For me, a practical change would mean it would be easy to do on a consistent basis, produce weight loss, and at the same time improve your overall health and wellness. That, my little ducklings, is what I consider practical. Still on board? Follow me……
Eliminate junk food. Yep, just junk food.

I’m not going to make this complicated. I’m not going to even discuss portion size (though that IS super important) or counting calories (pretty important too) or protein/carb/fat ratios (yep, slightly important, so fine. I’ll mention all three very briefly at the end of this post). For now, though, let’s just forget those three things. If you are fat, sick of feeling sick, and completely overwhelmed by all the different diets out there, then this, in my opinion, is a great way to get started. Even the average eight year old knows the difference between junk food and REAL whole foods. You can easily do this.
How many people do you know, including yourself, that have started a complicated program such as the Glycemic Index-Based Diet and miserably failed? There is a reason for that and you can read about it here. Here’s the real deal: the more convoluted your diet is, the sooner you will reject it. You know what that means? Failure and self loathing which leads to more weight gain and, more importantly, feeling emotionally defeated. It’s a awful cycle. Don’t you want to get off that deranged carousel?
If we are all being totally honest, you’re not fat because you ate too many carrot sticks and had a heaping second helping of that kale salad. Nope. Junk food is the real reason most of us could stand to lose a few pounds.
Putting an end to gobbling down junk food is the single most effective weight loss measure because it is so simple. If a person knows only one thing about nutrition, they probably know what constitutes junk food. Do I really need to point out that a Big Mac with cheese, large fries and a chocolate milkshake is junk food? Don’t we all get that?
Now I can already hear some of you shrieking at me. But, but, Gail!! Junk food is so delicious and enticing! It’s the reason we are drawn to it in the first place. Is this a practical way to lose weight? Waaaa, Waaaaa……
Let me respond by writing that yes, it IS a practical way to lose weight. I want to be perfectly clear on this point: no diet change is easy, let alone one that has the potential to allow you to drop a significant amount of weight. Like many, many regimented diets out there, this won’t be easy to sustain, BUT excluding junk food is much less difficult because it is restricted to one change and one change only! C’mon!! There are plenty of things to eat besides junk food. There just is. Have you been to the outer rings of a grocery store lately? You might want to check out all the choices you have! Expunging all the crap leaves you with true whole foods.

Next predictable objection? That making junk food forbidden only makes it more desirable. Hog wash. It doesn’t matter what diet you decide to go on, you have still got to be willing to say no to yourself. If you can’t, then you will always be doomed to failure. Your parents may never have said no to you, but you’ve got to figure out a way to say it to yourself! Forbidding foods is THE most straightforward and non-complex way to encourage weight loss and is head and shoulders above just eating less food. There are diets out there that are referred to as very low calorie diets (VLCD). These diets are the ones that require an abundance of willpower. You’re always bloody hungry! All I’m suggesting is that you look at junk food as the enemy, which it really is, and real food as your friend. Eat as much of it as you want, for now. Want that second honeycrisp apple? Go ahead. Want a second serving of those plump juicy strawberries? Have at it. As I wrote before, you are only making one change…..forbidding junk food. If you’re not even willing to do that for yourself, then I’m not sure you will ever be truly happy with your weight.
If you’re reading this and your current diet is made up almost exclusively of junk food, then I’m going to be honest. You have no where to go but up in your health and wellness. In my opinion, you’re already poisoning your body on a daily basis. You are the person that is going to feel and see the immediate benefits, but not without some withdrawal.
So while you will see the greatest gains, you will also have the biggest struggle. Turning your back on junk food is not a small change, but it has huge benefits to you.
A real eye opener is to jot down all the junk food you currently eat in a given day. Don’t even ask me what I mean by junk food. You don’t need it defined. When you have that list completed, read it. Take time to consider how often you eat it in a given week…a month, gasp….a year! Seriously evaluate how many empty calories you are eating. Now consider this: you don’t have to switch to a complicated, restrictive calorie, or weird fringe diet. Just stop eating junk food and watch yourself lose weight. Other side effects might include better looking skin and hair, fewer headaches, less depression, less bloating. The gospel truth is that the distinction between our actual weight and our best possible weight is explained by our decision to ingest processed food, fast food, chips, soft drinks, candy, and cheese puffs instead of food found in our produce section. And make no mistake. It IS a decision YOU make. Those Doritos did not find their way into your pantry by GPS.
So, there we have it. As far as I am concerned, if you are one of those people that have tried every diet but have failed time after time, this could very well be the solution for you. There is nothing else you could possibly do with your diet that will give you a bigger push towards that goal weight you covet.
I cannot guarantee that this one change will take you ALL the way there, but that is when you bring in portion control, counting calories and protein/carb/fat ratios. By the time you are ready to move on to that, you will have already lost some weight and you will be finally feeling you have some control over your health. You will be in a much better position mentally and emotionally to take that next step to further your weight loss. In the meantime, this could be a great way to start.
Always remember: there is no diet on earth that will do what healthy eating does. EVER!! Now, go forth and ban the junk! You’ve got this!
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Amen, Gail.
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This post was the truth and nothin but the truth and my fluffy butt needed to read this. I’ve been wondering am I too old to learn to become a personal trainer? Like literally was thinking about this 30 min before I ran across your post I understand that I need to get right 1st!!! So I need to really stop playing and lose these few extra lbs. Thanks lady❤️
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You’re never too old to become a certified trainer! I’m 55 and still going strong!
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Oh nice this is very encouraging..thank you!
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It was Back when I finally admitted in shame what I was doing to myself I started to lose weight. One of the first things I did was to drop junk food. And I DID feel a whole lot better. Now – 90 lbs loss later I eat burgers only – vegetarian burgers- hold the mayo. No chips. No soda. That seems to work for me
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Giving up junk food really can work for so many people. I just want to say one thing to you, though. You did not have to admit it in shame. There is no shame in admitting it. You had a clear thought and you acknowledged it and then acted on it. 90 pounds later and here you are and here you continue to go. It’s not easy, what you are doing, but you know that it is absolutely necessary so that you can fully live your life.
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Thanks for this! I needed to hear it too. I have known I needed to lose some pounds for awhile, but being diagnosed with cancer pushed my desire to be healthier to the forefront of my thoughts.
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I’m glad this resonated with you. Having been diagnosed with cancer myself last September, I can tell you that being fit and eating healthy goes a long way to making you feel strong and capable.
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Inspirational!
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Thank you!
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Preach!!
I had a few health issues beginning to crop up and wanted to lose weight. I dumped all the garbage food less than 2 months ago. Now I’m down 24lbs and still counting.
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Fabulous!! I love hearing that. Such a simple thing to do, but it has huge payoffs on many levels. Thanks for your comment!!
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HI, Gail! Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking my post on some of the damage obesity does. Nice job on this. I have been in this health writing thing for only the last six years, but it is clear to me that you need to eat healthy and exercise, not worry about losing weight. I like your positive approach. The more people start thinking straight about their health the less of a weight problem there will be for everyone.
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Exactly, Tony!! Sometimes the simplest solutions are the best!! Thanks for your comment.
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I rarely eat junk food but I had high cholesterol, high blood sugar and high blood pressure. The blood pressure dropped downed to normal after I started to eat “plain” at my meals, such as less salty/sweet food. The only thing that I need to watch is the oil/lipid. (I still rarely eat junk food)
Hence, junk food is one indicator but also watch the portion of food that doesn’t have food labels too.
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This was a great post, Gail!
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Thank you.
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I love your frank tone and am smiling as I read this! Thanks for stopping by my blog, Cancer Hits the Streets.
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Well, sometimes the answer to something, is the obvious one. I think there are people who like to make things more complicated than they actually are. I really enjoy your blog! Thanks for your comment!
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Gail we are theorical soulmates! I’m a therapist and I tend to play it straight with my clients and boy do people not like it. I’m thinking why do you come to therapy if you don’t want to change? But you hit this right on the head. Look, if we want things to be different we have to do the work. I remember when we were hearing on the news “McDonald’s was making people fat” blaming the restaurant as if people had no responsibility in their weight or food choices at all…and to a certain extent we are still not allowing people to take responsibility or accepting responsibility for their part in their own health and overall lives. Drives me insane! An that’s why some have a difficult time with me in session no whining! What are you willing to do to make the changes you want? As I stated in my post on your other blog, I went through a major transformation last year was it easy, we’ll no, but so worth it! I feel so much better. Green tea has become my new best friend. Decreased sugar, it was triggering headaches. Gotta make changes…
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Agreed. People, by their very nature, are resistant to change. We do what we do over and over again, because we can predict the outcome. However, if we always do what we have always done, we always have what we have.
For me, my challenge came after my cancer diagnosis and surgery. I was looking for that magic button to press to make myself feel better emotionally. Well, as you know, that button is imaginary. Just like with my running, I had to do the hard work to force my amygdala to calm the hell down!
Thank you so much for your comments and for reading my blog posts. I am thrilled that a qualified therapist took the time to comment on my writing.
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That is so true…we have to do the work. And who in the world said it was going to be easy?! As we both know.. 😉 Trust the process and keep on keeping on…
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I love how straightforward you are Gail! Looking forward to reading more of your blog!
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Gail,
Thank you for this article, it has neatly encompassed views that I have held for a long time but have somehow become unacceptable to utter in company. For some reason I get accused of “Victim Blaming” if I dare to say such things. The truth, as you pointed out, is that we and we alone are responsible for what enters our bodies. It should be obvious that if you eat too much you get fat. It’s not hard or complicated. Junk food is an excellent way of eating far too much and an excellent way of getting fat.
I would love it if you went a step further and suggested that if you really want to know what is in your food, cook it yourself, from scratch. This one simple action can help so much, for example, if you have ever made chicken liver pate you would know just how much butter is involved and hence why it is inadvisable to eat a lot of it
Best wishes.
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Thanks for your comments!
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Great writing, great content!
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Thanks you Kelly!
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Love your ‘i-don’t-waste-time-mincing-words’ approach! (sounds so much like me) and i love that you’re unafraid to use the F-word because it isn’t inappropriate at all – FAT is FAT no matter what people call it or how politically correct it isn’t – can’t sugarcoat (pun intended) this reality. Need to check out my FB page for my nutrition book, http://www.facebook.com/5ElementNutrition. Kudos to you & your no-nonsense approach!
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Thank you!!
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you are so welcome. refreshing to find someone else who isn’t afraid to call a rose a rose…
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I was politically incorrect long before it was openly frowned upon. Nowadays you have to be so careful as there is a nation of fragile teacups out there! Luckily, like you, I gave up up “give a craps” a long time ago. I think most people long to hear the truth. They might not like it at first, but you end up living a more authentic life. Thank you for sharing my blog post on your FB page. I noticed and appreciate it!
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thank you for not fearing your authenticity..a refreshing change from the people i usually meet…and i was born politically incorrect! (i’m an Aries, so that pretty much explains it)
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This is a great post Gail. I really enjoyed hearing the truth! I’m about to cut out junk food from my diet…and this was exactly what I needed to hear to keep me motivated! 🙂 Thank you!!! 🙂
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Cutting out junk food is the simplest thing to do. No complications, but no excuses either! Good luck and let me know how you do!
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